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Bartman
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 Posted - 01/19/2004 : 12:39:57 PM
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Originally posted by Kimberly
Wow! Bartman, thanks for all the information, it is really informative.
I had my wife read my reply before I submitted it and she said I was clinical but not too clinical. 
I figure if anyone, but especially someone with a past like Melissa's, has the guts to ask a serious question they deserve a honest and complete answer.
- Bart
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/19/2004 : 2:46:25 PM
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Bartman you have an honest and complete answer. It is clinical yes, but that carrys some weight in the explanation. It was precise and to the point, without putting anyone down, or getting gross.
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melissastarr
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Posted - 01/19/2004 : 5:24:58 PM
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Bartman,
Thank you so much for giving me all the biological information- I really had no idea of a lot of it! I think if it was all in layman's terms I wouldn't have been able to read it. But now I think I understand the whole issue a little better.
Melissa
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irishred
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Posted - 01/19/2004 : 5:46:42 PM
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Nudkiwi, I hear you with the "selective hearing." That is usually a pretty defense. lol
Bartman, nicely stated, great explanation!
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hillbilly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 03:05:34 AM
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Bartman That was the best one yet in here I think! You can talk about hard on's as much as you want. You can even want this page to end but I think it's not going to end that easy because unless you are mister "I never get one" like Spontanudity. Then most men are like me. I might not ever get a hard on in a camp. I don't know yet. I can tell you from the time my girlfriend and I started going nude more I have been paying attention. I have noticed the freedom and love that part. You all can talk around it all you want but I have noticed two side effects. We can talk about them or not. That is up to you all. One side effect is we seem to have more sex. There I said it. I have not been counting but it feels that way. The seconed thing I have noticed is I stay more semi erect. I don't know why. Maybe it's the "more sex" Maybe it's the no cloths. I have no idea. That is why I ask. So you know what I mean by more erect is. instead of say 30% erect it is now more like 50%. My girlfriend thinks that would be called erect going by the way some people in here reacted to the "erection" talked about on these pages. Like I said in my last post I looked at some pic's and I Would like to know at what point it ofends the people in here that say it is ofenisive. Some of the ladies in here must notice things like that in their real world life with their other half's. Other then that, as you know, till you have one you really don't know. To the people that say it never happens. Well I give up on that one. I just don't think it's true. When I do start going to a nude camp this year I hope it's not as tight as you say it is. Because I know I will be a "smooth" "nude" with a semi most of the time and yes, if it does make it to full then I will cover. But I am not going to cover every time I feel it twich, "grow" a little. So "really" Do you think I will be kicked out my first day? Or would it be more like the real world where some times things happen and for the most part it is looked at as, it happens and no harm done. Kind of like being at a friends house and "by mistake" walking in on someone in the bath room. Or one of your kids walking in on you when you are in the bath room doing # 2.
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hillbilly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 03:15:47 AM
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Got my star. I feel good about that. I still wish I could type.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 05:02:31 AM
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Hillbilly your missing the point. What nudist clubs say is if you get an erection cover it up, and if it becomes a problem they will say something to you. If the problem continue arise, and you do not do anything about it, then you will probably be asked to leave. Were not saying cover yourself up everytime you feel a twinge, but cover yourself up if you are walking around sporting a flag pole. Hillbilly in my 17 1/2 years of going to nudist clubs I think I have only seen a few men having problems with erections, it is just not that common.
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irishred
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 07:44:06 AM
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Hillbilly, I go to a nude beach in the summer, in the course of the entire summer over many years, I rarely see another guy with an erection. Seeing nude people at a nude beach or club or resort is natural, nothing sexual. I don't think you'll have a problem once you walk around and relax at the nude camp.
Hang in there.
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Bartman
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 09:06:56 AM
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I agree with Kimberly and irishred, you just don't see that many at nudist venues.
Right now you seem to be fairly new to the whole running around with no clothes on bit, and you are doing so with your girlfriend. Between the novelty factor not having worn off and having the naked girlfriend in close but private proximity, it's not a great leap to image a little more semi-ness might just be occuring.  And that's totally natural.
A nudist venue however is not private time with your naked girlfriend. The presence of others engaged in generally mundane activities tends to seriously diminish those lecherous thoughts, and their resulting effect.
Do erections occur at nudist venues? Yes. If they didn't, there wouldn't be a policy about what to do when they did occur!! But they occur much less often than you think.
As for whether you'd be kicked out your first day, that would depend greatly on your own attitude when or even IF you were to have a noticable erection. A little bit of courtesy and decorum can go a long way and will not stop you from enjoying your visit.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 10:19:26 AM
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Again Bart, very well said.
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hikerman
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 1:21:52 PM
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The forun topic is "Where Do You Stand On Male Arousal". Well .... I'm all for it!!!
Seriously though ... I've been to Haulover several times and can honestly say that I have never had an erection. But I have seen women handling their men until they get one. Most of these people were younger .. < 25. So even though men should do what they can to cover up ... there are some folks who aren't concerned with that issue in any way. That may be another topic of discussion in and of itself.
Isn't It Beautiful Outside ...
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Revilo42
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 2:54:43 PM
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Mellissa said:
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I guess if you can tell it's happening you need to stop it or cover it, for the sake of modesty and politeness.
I don't really disagree with this comment (although covering up is more realistic than stopping it in most cases!), but it's interesting to compare your comment to what we might hear from people outside this group:
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I guess if you're naked around others, stop and cover it, for the sake of modesty and politeness.
Just stirring the pot!
Cheers!
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melissastarr
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 5:21:11 PM
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David,
We SHOULD cover up if we're in a place in which nudity is offensive. For example, I wear clothes to weork even though I'd rather not. Why? That's what's polite. If I visit others' homes, I'm dressed (unless they're nudists.) That's modesty and politeness. I think we agree it's modest and polite to be nude at nude or clothing-optional activities, resorts, and homes.
Melissa
ps- what are you stirring in that pot? I'm hungry!
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hillbilly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 11:58:24 PM
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Thanks again Bart. Again you have done a good job on saying it the way an old hillbilly like me can understand it. Not saying the others don't but, for some reason. Anyway thank you also Kim. Your input is also one the more down to earth so I can understand. And it feels more like talking to another person instead of a doctor.
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nudetoo
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Posted - 01/21/2004 : 12:16:47 AM
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Its not the erection thats offensive, it would be the flaunting of it or not using cover
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