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justmerob
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Posted - 02/26/2004 : 6:42:33 PM
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I should know this by now, having been married for 22 years, but do women with small breasts feel diminished in their feminity by women with larger breasts? My opinion is that women aren't threatened by the breast size of their friends, associates, etc., as men apparently are by their own unequal endowments. Any comments?
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chic
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Posted - 02/27/2004 : 01:01:40 AM
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As a male, my size, ever changing, doesn't bother me. But my experience tells me guys worry more about themselves than do women about themslves.
Chic
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Kimberly
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Posted - 02/27/2004 : 01:21:32 AM
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Justmerob;
Yeah we do. We are always comparing ourselves with other women, I guess its a competitive thing. I think the reason we look on women that have ample mammalry glands with envy, is because that is what men usually guage us by.
Kim =^.^=
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 02/27/2004 : 01:30:26 AM
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quote: Originally posted by justmerob
I should know this by now, having been married for 22 years, but do women with small breasts feel diminished in their feminity by women with larger breasts? My opinion is that women aren't threatened by the breast size of their friends, associates, etc., as men apparently are by their own unequal endowments. Any comments?
I have a friend who wants a "boob-job," as she says. I keep trying to tell her that they are fine. Perfect, in fact. Perfectly shaped and proportioned to her body. But I can't convince her. I've even told her that as you age, less is better. They don't sag and lose shape as much. But to no avail. She still wants the job.
I know another, and she is beautiful! Hers were larger than the other girl's, and also nicely proportioned and shaped. She got the job done.
I know too many that are too concerned about that aspect of their appearance and who don't need to be, but are anyway. So from my perspective, I think girls do worry about breast size as much as guys and their size. I would guess that a lot of women do, but are perhaps less open about their insecurities.
Randy
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chic
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Posted - 02/27/2004 : 01:34:56 AM
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Kim,
Again your right!
I was feebly defending against the male obsession with their size, forgetting that the same exists among our sisters.
We're all nuts !
Chic
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 02/27/2004 : 01:41:54 AM
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quote: Originally posted by Kimberly
Justmerob;
Yeah we do. We are always comparing ourselves with other women, I guess its a competitive thing. I think the reason we look on women that have ample mammalry glands with envy, is because that is what men usually guage us by.
Kim =^.^=
I think that as a matter of self-esteem, everyone compares their features to those of thier peers.
Personally, I prefer less to more ample, mostly (I didn't want to say largely ) because of my aforementioned reasons of proportion and the effects of time. Yet, my selection of a lady wouldn't be affected in either case by her breast size!
Randy
P.S. We're getting away from the topic (although it is getting tired). Maybe we should start a topic.
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chic
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Posted - 02/27/2004 : 02:02:05 AM
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Randy,Kim
Maybe we are getting tired.
Talking about time,,,age,,, physical things (what a term) doesn't matter as much as does the person (her/him).
Love you people,,,good night.
Chic
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irishred
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Posted - 02/28/2004 : 07:28:23 AM
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Chic, well said.
I would not want my wife to get a "boob job." The natural look, whatever the size or shape, is the best.
irishred
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Kimberly
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Posted - 02/28/2004 : 08:08:53 AM
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I agree with you IrishRed, so many of the "enhancements" look fake. But to some women that have really small breasts it does give them self confidence. I would not have the enhancement procedure done.
Kim =^.^=
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chic
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Posted - 02/28/2004 : 12:18:35 PM
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Kim and Irishred,
As naturalists/nudists it only makes sense for us to accept our bodies as they are. I think it's part of our nude life style culture.
Chic
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sailordave
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Posted - 02/28/2004 : 5:59:30 PM
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To be honest, I've always had a size complex with my penis. Even when joining the Navy and seeing that I was about average, I wanted bigger. As for surgery for that, not no but HELL NO! Heard there are exercises that can help and may consider such things. As for women's breast, I too prefer natural. Sure, for a go go dancer, enlarged breast will add money to their income and as long as the women with these enhanced breast aren't moving quickly or laying on their back they look nice and real(depending on amount of enhancement).
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melissastarr
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Posted - 02/28/2004 : 9:20:16 PM
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I think men are more obsessed with penis size than women are with breast size. For me, I wish I was a bit smaller in the breast area. Not that I'm willing to have surgery to get that, but it sure would be nice!
Melissa
___________________________________________________________________ "Do they say that nudity and sex always go together? Well, then be careful and don't get pregnant while taking a bath."
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sailordave
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Posted - 02/28/2004 : 9:51:38 PM
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Can more easily understand a lady having breast reduction surgery than the reverse. Just the thought of the bra straps cutting into the skin leaving nearly permanent marks and back pain is reason enough for it to be covered by medical insurance.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 02/29/2004 : 02:29:57 AM
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I have a friend who had to to have breast reduction surgery for health reasons. She looks and feels a lot better now.
Kim =^.^=
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calmnude
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Posted - 02/29/2004 : 11:10:35 AM
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too many people judge themselves too harshly, this is too big, that is too small, this sticks out too far, my hair is too thick/fine/curly/straight/the wrong color. who cares. if you are a good person, we love you anyway, and i adree with the poster who stated nudists are more accepting. plus when nude, everything settles out, instead of being restrained by clothes.
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