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nudeboy
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 Posted - 06/17/2004 : 03:10:34 AM
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What happens to us men who go to the nudist beach alone because our wives/girlfriends can't or won't go with them? Speaking for myself, I always go alone as my wife would never go as she hates the sun and is TOO shy to go nude.
This week on another nudist website, I was told that couples prefer to be sharing the beach with other couples,as their women feel they are being stared at by the single men.This makes me feel quite daft as don't us men hate being stared at too ? Does this mean that men unaccompanied by a woman are not really welcome at nude places ? or am I just reacting badly?
Ladies please share your views/thoughts/experiences about this, ie does the presence of unaccompanied men disturb your enjoyment of being naked?
Gents - what's your take on all this? ie do you feel any the less welcome at a nude place when you are on your own or with other male buddy/friends ?
This forum rocks!!
nudeboy..
because its how I was born
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Cheri
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Posted - 06/17/2004 : 09:19:05 AM
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It doesn't bother me if the other nudists at a beach are couples or singles. They're people. I was once told that it's the married men who feel uncomfortable with many more single men.
Hugs, Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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Stibw
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Posted - 06/18/2004 : 02:53:09 AM
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So Randy why you have to spend 10 minutes to correct your computer every time you log onto this site ? Did your email address is so similar to the abuser that this site automatically kicks you out everytime you log onto this site.
We still want to hear from you, especially after you settle down at Miami.
Bernie
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Kimberly
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 Posted - 06/18/2004 : 03:07:25 AM
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It doesn't bother me if there are single men or couples at the beach. I do prefer that they be nude. Depending on the beach you go too, seems like there are always a bunch of gawkers looking for women. Most of the time the nude crowd sticks together which is nice.
Kim =^.^=
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nudeboy
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Posted - 06/18/2004 : 05:09:45 AM
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Totally in agreement with Kimberly.If people are at the nude beach they must be nude also. Personally I am not fussy if its a mixed crowd or mostly men or mostly women.At the end of the day, everybody is naked and would not see anything new -unless of course they have some amazing Japanese style full body tattoos.lol.
nudeboy..
because its how I was born
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 06/19/2004 : 02:05:46 AM
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Originally posted by Stibw
So Randy why you have to spend 10 minutes to correct your computer every time you log onto this site ? Did your email address is so similar to the abuser that this site automatically kicks you out everytime you log onto this site.
We still want to hear from you, especially after you settle down at Miami.
Bernie
Bernie,
Thanks, I appreciate it. I do want to hang around here. It's a pleasant, fun group.
I spoke to admin about the situation, and It's not that our email addresses are similar. It's the internet addresses that are similar. I don't have to go through it every time I log on, but I can tell when he's been here, because that's when I have to fix. I don't want to go into detail about the process that I use to correct the situation. In case he doesn't know how I fix it, I don't want to educate the offender. Suffice to say that the time consumed probably isn't really 10 minutes, but after I do the vodoo that I do do, I have to restart the computer, and it's getting old. (By the way, we know who he is.) The guy is just an ( * ) who has nothing better to do than to amuse himself in this way. He's a minor irritation that's fairly easy to deal with.
When I move to Miami, I probably won't have the problem, because I will have a totally different connection, so I'm sure I will become more active again. In any case, I'm not leaving the group!
Randy 
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Stibw
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Posted - 06/21/2004 : 03:55:49 AM
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Randy, thanks for the explanation. I think I understand your problem now, and I agree with you that we should not discuss it further lest the offender finds out about it.
So you are still in Minnesota ? The mosquitos must be getting thick by now !!
Bernie
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 06/21/2004 : 04:42:07 AM
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Yes, I am still here , and yes, the mosquitos are getting thick. But I am going down late this week for a week or two to look for a place and a job. Then I'll come back to take my son on a vacation to South Dakota before I return to south Florida, hopefully for good. The hold-up is that I had to remodel, repair and re-tile the bathroom in preparation for my daughter's graduation party. I ripped the floor off down to the planks on top of the joists. I replaced the subfloor and tile, the toilet and one of the walls. After I repair the hot water leak in the tub faucet and replace rest of the the walls this week, I can go.
As to my problem, we're workin' on it. There was a banned member to whom I bore an internet similarity, but there may not be a problem with him anymore. I should say that if it is a result of some guy's activity, it isn't anything he is doing as an attack on me specifically, just that I am being recognized as someone else. Anyway, It's beginning to look like it may be just technical problems still resulting from that situation or something else, so I may have spoken too soon. We'll see. But just in case, I'll keep my mouth shut.
Randy
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Dave
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Posted - 06/21/2004 : 06:17:26 AM
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Originally posted by nudeboy
Totally in agreement with Kimberly.If people are at the nude beach they must be nude also. Personally I am not fussy if its a mixed crowd or mostly men or mostly women.
Gawkers are everywhere,and whether you are nude or not it's not fun to be gawked at!My wife and I don't like to be told we can't be naked on the beach or anywhere and vice versa don't tell us we have to be nude in certain places!!I feel your freedom to choose is first and formost! Dave...
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FireProf
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 Posted - 06/21/2004 : 10:19:44 AM
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nudeboy,
We echo the sentiments already posted. We don't have a problem with single male nudists but as always there are many who give those single male nudists or married male nudists without their partners a bad name.
We welcome all to sit and join us at the beach. We have and had some good experiences and a few bad ones. The problem comes with my wife feeling uncomfortable around solo male nudists because of these few bad experiences.
We are quite aware that the vast majority of solo male nudists aren't bad guys but it takes time to get to know if a solo male nudist is there for the same reasons you and your wife are. If you automatically assume they are, it could be too late when your wife has to experience yet another bad situation and you find yourself one of these solo male nudists because she doesn't feel comfortable in the social nudist setting anymore.
What I do is get to know the person first before I invite them over to our area to meet my wife.
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 06/21/2004 : 6:56:56 PM
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In principle, I agree that people on "nude" beaches should be nude. But in fact, nude or clothing optional beaches are on public land and everyone has a right to be there as they choose to be. People can go and enjoy the beach and if part of that enjoyment is seeing you nude and that bothers you, you need to go to a private nude facility where rules can be imposed. But even at those places that require nudity, there are no doubt, people who enjoy seeing others nude too. I do, and I'll bet a lot of you do as well, even if you don't admit it. But that does not mean that I am lusting after anyone, it means only that I appreciate beauty. Being at a public place, we do not have the legal or moral right to restrict others' rights to excercise our own.
I, for one and no doubt countless others, would never have taken the step to total nudity around others if I didn't have the C/O beach available to get comfortable with the idea and finally ease out of my trunks. I never would have paid to be in a fish bowl where I would be required to open myself up like that immediately, instead of doing it at my own pace.
I too am disgusted by people visiting for a free peep-show. But for me, part of being a nudist means being comfortable and escaping into myself for my comfort and pleasure. Face it, no matter if you're dressed or not, some may look at you and have lustful thoughts. There's nothing you can do about it, so my advice is don't let it bother you.
Randy
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james423
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Posted - 06/21/2004 : 7:52:23 PM
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I agree with Randy -my wife took a while to go nude & the fact that the beaches were clothing optional rather than nude mandatory was what allowed her to go in the first place (she wouldn't have ever started if she knew that she would be required to go nude if she went on the beach). I know of some couples where the wife/girlfriend goes topfree or nude & the husband/boyfriend wears trunks. I do feel a bit skeptical if nobody in the group is nude or topfree, but I've seen groups of half a dozen people where only one was nude & didn't have any problem with that. The fact that they are willing to go to the clothing optional beach with their friend is a show of support & may lead some of them to eventually participate.
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 06/24/2004 : 5:02:49 PM
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The following is a message I recieved from someone (apparently in this group) as it came through this group. I have no way of confirming or denying the authenticity of this story, but if it represents a true scenario, the US Government would be aware of it and would be appealed to directly by the victims.
It is lengthy, but I would recommend reading it through so you have an idea of what to watch for in the future. I've seen this type of scam before. Someone writing to Americans attempting to get money by appealing to our generous nature and our patriotism and the human nature of greed. Note that they offer to deposit money into YOUR account near the bottom of the letter(*I highlighted this in red). How stupid do they think people are? What they are after is your account information and they gain access to an electronic withdrawall of ALL OF YOUR FUNDS. If you get it, don't bite! Delete it!
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Don't report it as spam, since it came through our forum.
That could get our forum listed as spam!
Randy
Hello nudeisntlewd
You received the following message from: xxxxxxxxxx
(xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx@yahoo.it)
At: http://www.nudist-resorts.org/talk/
From: Gabriel & Cynthia
Email Address: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dearest,
it is my pleasure to write you Based on the information and
recommendation I got about quick growth of business, investment and commerce in
your country, I deemed it necessary to go into investment in any viable
venture as a joint partnership with you.
I am Gabriel Onana and my sister Cynthia Onana the children of Chief
H.R.H Onana ezekiel of (blessed memory)the ex- king of mende tribe in
Sierra-Leone. On the 19th May, 2002 our father was murdered by some rebel
group on the accusation that he is a great sponsor and in support to
restore the democratically elected President of Alahji Tejan Kabba.
Almost half of the palace was burnt.
Fortunately I was not in the place when they raided the palace my
father married 2 wives with 10 children my mother , with 6 of my father's
children where murdered in cold blood while my little sister escape the
incident with bullet wounds on his right leg at the moment where the
remaining families are I don't know. Rightnow I am left alone with only
one sister after the sudden assassination of my father the family has
been displaced and totally disorganized left with nothing. Early that year
before the death of my father travelled to abidjan where he told the
family that he deposited 4.5 million USD in a Bank in Abidjan Cote
d'ivoire,*now we are looking for a God fearing person who will assist us in
transfering the money into his account. So I decided to go and search for
the documents where my father use to keep them in his room, I
discovered the documents covering the deposit he made with the Bank and other
documents for his business. As my town has been a serious war zone, I
made arrangement and leave the country with my sister to abidjan Cote
d'ivoire now.
We have gone and conform the deposit with the Bank with all the
documents,all the documents are with me here. Now I wish to transfer these
funds abroad and enter into a business venture as the country (Cote
d'ivoire) is no longer in peace since October 2002 the country has witness
all sort of political unrest ranging from ethnic clash which resulted to
killing of innocent citizens and strangers are living in fears as the
country is no longer that peaceful nation as it was before due to this
reason that I have decided to contact you, to assist me to transfered
this money out of this country for the future of me and my younger
sister.As soon as you show your sincererity and interesting we will talk
about<
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naturalgar
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Posted - 06/24/2004 : 5:54:33 PM
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Randy,
I got the same message via e mail today. They also PM me while I was online, Knowing full well what they wanted. They just came right out and asked me to send them a check.
Gar
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calmnude
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Posted - 06/24/2004 : 6:27:13 PM
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reported this to admin. got similar e-mail and they will be dealt with.
had similar episode about 2 months ago, but same m.o..
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