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calmnude
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Posted - 01/17/2004 : 1:44:58 PM
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i think there was another similar thread here with "bare in the desert". maybe following that discussion through would give you a little better perspective and mpre points of view to help you out.
but i agree, it is a fine line you are going to have to walk for a while. i wish you the best
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hillbilly
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 Posted - 01/18/2004 : 07:12:44 AM
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Thanks to all for the down to earth responces. I like them much better then the overdone ones I have talked to her a little. I have been with her mom for a few years now and know her well. Not worried about that part. Mom feels the same as me. On the part about dad. She was only there 3 months. She was there because she was not likeing the rules here. You see me and mom have been living togather 4 yrs. So the 15 year old has been here some time. What happened was she ( the 15 year old ) did not have to follow to many rules in the old home. When she started going into the teens it started showing up bad. So me and mom started the normal stuff. like home by ten, no boys in the bed room. No calls after 10. Don't go any where with out telling us where. That's about it really. She had this bad habit of tacking off somewhere and calling home only when she needed a ride home. Nuff of that. Anyway it came to a head one weekend I left to go hunting with some friends and came back to get a pillow and mis teen had for the most part taken over the house and was rocking out and did not care that it bothered others in the house so I told her to turn it down and as I went up to get what I came for I cought the remark she did not mean for me to here. At that point She was grounded for the weekend. Of corse after I left, she took it out on mom. I got back the next day and she knew she was going to loose her phone for the things she said to mom so she called Dad. So you see she thought that dad would not have so maney rules. She was wrong. So now she is back. It was during that time is when me and mom started thinking nude. As I said I did tell her about me and mom wanting to join a camp down the road. At first it was  then after she ask a few questions on ( why) she said she might go. She ask if she could have cloths if she went. Also on the step dad note. She has come a long way in the last year and now is starting to be a fairly good kid. I think she thinks a lot of me now because I think she is starting to understand what the rules where for. ( to help not hurt) Any way now she wants me to adopt her and she is asking if she can call me dad. So its getting better but I think you are right I think we will start at the camp and work our way home because of her age. Dam is this a book or what. I wish I could type.
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irishred
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Posted - 01/18/2004 : 09:15:49 AM
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hillbilly, sounds like things are progessing well with your family. Good for you. I hope things continue on that positive path.
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calmnude
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Posted - 01/18/2004 : 10:17:44 AM
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hillbilly,
just a question of a little tough love and lots of communication and caring and respectfullness. think you are on right track, but if you have any questions or concerns, please post or ask cheri.
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Cheri
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Posted - 01/18/2004 : 11:54:35 AM
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Welcome to these boards, Hillbilly. Be careful. If her mother and biological father have shared custody or if her father has bad ideas about what nudism is, you could lose even visitation rights to your stepdaughter. It's happened.
If the father has no problem with the situation, please get a signed and notarized letter from him stating his agreement.
Best regards, Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/18/2004 : 2:13:51 PM
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I think your right about that Cheri, anyway you look at it she is a minor child, and you know how the courts look on nudity and children.
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hillbilly
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Posted - 01/18/2004 : 11:33:34 PM
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does it make a differance if mom has full cust. Also It's not like just me and the kid would go to the nude camp alone. Mom would always be there. Matter of fact I don't know if she will ever go but I dought she would even think about it if mom were not there.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/19/2004 : 02:38:43 AM
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Hillbilly;
Mom could loose full custody if the father could show just cause that his daughter was living in an unsafe or immoral invirnment.
Kim =^.^=
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hillbilly
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Posted - 01/19/2004 : 05:37:26 AM
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Your right. What is this world comming to. You can't do anything without someone wanting to take your money, your kids or your life!!
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cheef
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 04:50:23 AM
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Cheef it hasn't hurt ours any, and they are all healthy.
Kim =^.^=
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irishred
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 07:45:02 AM
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Cheef, nicely stated. I agree with you.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 10:28:32 AM
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I wasn't raised a nudist, got into it after I was married. I woulder how many members of the forum were raised as nudists, and do the have any positive or negative feelings about growing up in a nudist family?
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Bartman
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 1:57:59 PM
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Originally posted by Kimberly
I woulder how many members of the forum were raised as nudists, and do the have any positive or negative feelings about growing up in a nudist family?
I wasn't raised a nudist per se, but nudity was far from taboo. Walking nude from bedroom to bathroom or back was not uncommon.
Most people don't know this, but EPCOT at Disney World in Flordia was originally intended to be a lived in city, nothing like the amusement park it became. Experimental Prototype City Of Tomorrow. It was to be a show case of modern living with all of the cutting edge home applicances, ect., and it was to be clothing optional. That was one of Walt Disney's specifications. At the time, the very early 70's, Disney was pre-screening famlies to live in EPCOT and my parents applied. I still have some of the brouchures and other paperwork. The clothing optional aspect was discussed on several occasions. Once Walt was out of the picture the focus changed greatly, pretty much only the EPCOT name and location remained. I bring this up to show that while I wasn't raised a nudist, my parents were not at all opposed to clothing optional living.
I would say looking back that my parent's attitude towards nudity was very positive. It wasn't made to be a big deal one way or the other and I'm sure it lead to my and my sibling's strong degree of body acceptance and comfort.
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irishred
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Posted - 01/20/2004 : 5:04:15 PM
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Bartman, that's amazing about Epcot. Very fascinating to think what might have been. Once again, I've learned something new!
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