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Originally posted by Warmskin

The following color codes are thus:

Dark lettering = Lookatme
Light blue lettering = Me
Red lettering is me quoting Lookatme.

I should say that this is the last multi-faceted message I'll put on this thread - gets too confusing.


I think that if I'd find attractive a woman in a clothed environment, then in a nude one, it'd be much more likely to find her attractive for obvious reasons.

Just exactly how do you plan to do to try to attract attention to yourself, sexually? You said, "Try to attract attention to their nude bodies in a sexual way." That leaves the reader full of possiblilities of how you are going to attract attention to yourself, sexually. Maybe you would like describe with exactitude how you would do this. . OK, I stand corrected. You know, it'd be quite weird to try to get attention. If someone is sexy, he/she will still get attention. But that last part should be not disencouraged.

It's not about trying to get attention. But why can't I simply let a nude woman know I find her physically attractive? But again, you said, "Try to attract attention to their nude bodies in a sexual way." I agree with another post on this forum that your words are inconsistent. TRYING to get attention and GETTING IT even if you didn't actually try to are quite different things...



If you are very sexy, you won't have to lift a finger to show it. If you are not sexy, trying to assume a sexy pose will make you a laughing stock. That's obvious. I'm relieved to hear that you agree to at least that extent.

But even if I find someone physically attractive, I may not have sex in mind. That's it. Again, you stated, "Try to attract attention to their nude bodies in a sexual way." Should I now disbelieve your original post? Again, I stand corrected.

You might be happier at a swinger resort, Lookatme. I'm not insulting you by saying that. It's just that you would enjoy yourself there more than you would at a traditional nudist resort. To me, swinger means partner swapping. I'd be neither looking for sex nor such swapping. I'd be just looking for a nude public environment where I can enjoy being nude with other nude people, just like in a nude beach, but not expected at all to hide my attraction feelings.But, you original post seemed to have noticeable sexual content. You're right here.

There is nothing sexy about a nudist resort. If you're trying to attract attention to yourself in a sexual way, a swinger resort is your only choice. You don't have to swap wives, as far as I know. It is sexual, though, and the sexual atmosphere that you wanted is found at swinger resorts, and not at traditional resorts.

I really think you should revisit your original thesis and revise it considerably. Either you want sexuality or you don't, and your first post has definite sexual content which is not congruent with the realities of a nudist resort. I understand that you are inquiring about how things could be different, which is fine, but know what you want out of nusidm first. To be honest, I'm still not quite sure in every way what I want out of nudism, but I know that the majority of nudists usually prevail as to what the expectations are of nudism.

[b]I'm not the only one here who is not following your train of thought. Perhaps if you restated your thoughts, we could assess them better for you. It might help.

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Ben Franklin

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