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Conster74
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 Posted - 08/26/2004 : 9:11:42 PM
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I don't know if he is kidding or not but my BF said the other day that the shrink was surfing the Net and "accidentally" *cough cough BULLSH*T cough* came across my nudist site.
Aside from being disgusted by the thought of this wanker looking at my nude pics.... can he get me for that???
Conster
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FireProf
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 Posted - 08/27/2004 : 12:56:42 AM
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I am no lawyer, but aside from maybe telling someone else, I really don't think he can get you for anything.
I am sure with all the websites with pictures of nude women...surely those pictures of a nudist are not as prone to hassles as those of a pornographic nature.
I don't think he can get you for anything.
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melissastarr
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 05:58:35 AM
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In what context was this comment made? I'd think it would be unprofessional for a shrink to hold your website against you. He may want to talk about it, but usually that would be to understand you more rather than to 'get you.' I'm not quite sure what you mean by 'get you.'
Beyond that, did I know you have a website? I'm thinking that's news to me. Care to share the link?
Melissa
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Conster74
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 Posted - 08/27/2004 : 07:25:20 AM
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http://www.angelfire.com/rebellion/connie_the_naturist
I don't know if he was saying it to be kidding or not but my BF told me last night that the shrink came by my friends house (!!!) and it came up "Oh yah I saw her nudist site. I didn't know she did that!" *sh*t eating grin*
That's because I don't make it a point of going around TELLING PEOPLE schitzforbrains! It was hard enough to find, its only on Google, under Constance Goodnow...
If I wanted my friends to know that I would have TOLD THEM MY f***** SELF!!! What a moron. What a loser!!! What an egotistical, crackbrained I totally wish I could find a really bad word to describe him here stool pigeon...
I should complain but they probably wouldn't take me serious anyways... dammit.
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Cheri
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 09:48:40 AM
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Sorry to hear that someone, a supposed professional, doesn't understand what nudism is about and is judgemental. There should be nothing he can "get" you for.
Hugs, Cheri
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Conster74
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 10:01:33 AM
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That's good because he should have kept his mouth SHUT!!!!!!!!!! Especially to my friends whom I hadn't told! What happens to him now cannot be helped. 
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 11:49:50 AM
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Nudism isn't anything to be ashamed of. It may be a less common hobby than water-skiing or collecting baseball cards, but no more immoral.
When a person is "out there" with something as public as a web site, or even this web forum, I feel he or she is demonstrating that attitude and I suppose this type of situation is to be expected eventually. Being on the internet is a matter of public record-as public as you can get. But I understand that we sometimes feel the need to be discreet due to the snickers of the small minded and the simple minded. We've all experienced this type of childishness, and always will.
As far as this jerk mentioning it, it sounds like it might have been done maliciously. But as long as it wasn't information released that was gained directly through a doctor/patient relationship, I don't see where saying it could be held against him. I don't see how he could use it against you, except to try to embarass you. But if he is your doctor, I think that you have the ultimate power to dump him and get a new one, tell him he is an unprofessional "doctor" of low character and moral fiber, and invite everyone you know to not to use him.
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jdr
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 12:36:02 PM
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I think Randy hit it on the head. Once people hear that the patient-doctor relationship is not secure with this guy, who is going to trust him to handle their mental problems? While it may be somewhat embarassing to you,Constance, it could be a very big financial mistake for this doctor. As far as your friends, if they are true friends they should not be unsettled by the fact that you like to take your clothes off once in awhile. Have faith in your friends and act like it's no big deal for you to be a nudist, but it's a huge deal for your doctor to be spreading around things that are of no concern of his!
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Bare in the Desert
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 2:57:38 PM
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You have a very tasteful website, you shouldn't worry. If your doctor decides he can't keep this information to himself he is hurting his own reputation. If he tells others and it causes you emotional, physical or financial distress, then you have a good lawsuit on your hands.
Even if your friends did find out they should be accepting, you are the same person in clothes or not. Maybe remind them they're all naked under there clothes too.
I take it your boyfriend is not an nudist then?
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naturalgar
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 Posted - 08/27/2004 : 3:53:42 PM
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Does your boyfreind also consult your doctor Connie? When would he find the oportunity to speak to the Dr.. Or did the Dr. see your BF, and just bring up the subject of your website in casual conversation? I find that a bit hard to believe. Hypocratic oath aside,why would he even mention it? I think your BF is joshing.
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calmnude
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Posted - 08/27/2004 : 7:37:44 PM
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the shrink acted unprofessionally and unethically.
he should not be discussing patients as if they were items on the newspaper.
nor should he be discussing them in a public gathering.
he can't get you for anything, but you can
this guy seems like a slimeball. dump immediatley, and if anyone asks why tell them he was discussing you (the patient) outside the professionally accepted guidelines.
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 08/28/2004 : 12:06:31 AM
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Conster,
Two points come to mind.
First, I was thinking about your statement: “I don't know if he is kidding or not but my BF said”…
Before jumping to a conclusion about your doctor, I’d discuss it with your boyfriend and be sure he wasn’t BSing you. Make sure the doctor actually told your friends.
Second, jdr has a point with the statement: “As far as your friends, if they are true friends they should not be unsettled by the fact that you like to take your clothes off once in awhile.”
I agree that they should be more understanding of others’ differing tastes and interests. But the fact is that people, even our friends, do have pre-conceived notions about us. I think some don’t need to hear about every aspect of your personality because some people just can’t handle it or understand it, and some never will. For others, you have to walk in the shallow water so to speak, and not throw them in the deep end like this guy apparently did. You would be surprised who will understand if brought along slowly.
Just my thoughts,
Randy
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pilot
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Posted - 08/28/2004 : 7:35:08 PM
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Connie,
It is unethical for a psychiatrist to identify a person as his/her patient to others who do not have a need to know. Most won't even tell "need to know" people -- such as third-party payors -- without the express permission of the patient/client. Nor would most psychiatrists risk their careers by such a revelation. My point is that one should not jump to conclusions about who said what or did what without checking.
Your web sites are public, of course (I _do_ like the Godzilla site!) and people are going to run across them. What you have placed at your naturist site is hardly controversial or provocative, but rather an expression of personal perspective. There is nothing at the site that is out of the ordinary from a clinical or medical perspective (although I freely admit to being curious as to whether the Atkin's diet went anywhere, it has a profound effect in about 1/4 of my patients who try it, and the other 3/4 get nowhere).
Can your shrink "get you"? Hardly. But if it appears that he is discussing his patients with non-professionals and casual acquaintances, you should report him to the state licensing board. If the assertions are true, and you came up in casual discussion as his patient among non-professionals, he can--and maybe should--lose his license.
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deanpgriffin
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Posted - 08/29/2004 : 12:22:13 AM
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There will always be wankers and wierdo nit wits... we are not ahamed of what we believe in... We were great friends with some folk from MD...then one of them googled my listings here...and now we are castigated...not in the loop of all those things we enjoyed together...but hey..we are still nude ...and at the risk of being aloof... its their loss... We are not ashamed of our beliefs, our bodies and neither should you be!
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nude_explorer
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Posted - 08/29/2004 : 5:20:57 PM
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Constance
You might want to have a discussion with your BF, find out what his motives were also, find out if he was telling you the truth and was saying this out of love for you and for your benifit, or if he was doing it to tease or ridicule you, if he was doing it out of love, respect, and trying to be helpful then great, if not, maybe you should rethink your relationship with your BF, its not a funny joke.
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cyberman4591
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Posted - 08/30/2004 : 02:05:43 AM
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Connie,
I'm always surprised at the way some people react to nudity, especially in the US. Here, in the Netherlands, people react more at ease on nudism / natursim and are less narrow minded about it. Saw your site and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. The fact that your doctor reacts this way says more about his conception of nudity (an his problems and frustrations with it) then it tells about you. I don't know the laws in the US concerning this kind op topic, but I can't imagine he can hurt you in any way. Know that many people support your point of view and openess about this topic.
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