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naturalgar
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 Posted - 07/21/2004 : 12:54:30 PM
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Minnie,
I try to abide by the rules too, but there's alot of etiqutte that needs to be known. When you're a newbe at somthing you may not always know all the proper etiqutte.One time I submitted my pic to a nudist website to use in the profile album one time> It was an inocent picture of me sitting nude on a chair (no erection). But they said "sorry" there's to much emphasis on the genitals...So I just sent them a head shot.
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calmnude
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Posted - 07/30/2004 : 05:23:58 AM
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Minnie,
agreed. cant spread the word if you don't talk to people.
and like any other clubs or organizations, some rules make perfect sense and others are bizarre. as long as the rules aren't too out of line, you just sort of shake your head, and continue doing what you are doing.
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PapaShug
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 Posted - 07/30/2004 : 4:54:29 PM
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I posted a message in the FAQ Section that could have fit here as well.
Our young friend has found a resort established by the people who write our tax codes. He has laid out a number of rules from his experience I've never seen or heard of.
What's with the "squatting" issue? Did that come from the days of legs crossed at the ankles and stick out your pinkie(finger) at tea? I saw a couples leap-frog race one time. Nude leap frop is a daring undertaking.
The "three visit rule" intent is two fold. One is your intent as a prospective nudist and the other is your membership dollars. Kills two birds with one stone. I've been to a small club with no maximum visits. I can imagine the summer weekends there need a bouncer on staff.
Commenting on someone's physical appearance in the texile environment can be frought with peril until you get to know them. Why push your luck in the nude until you get to know them?
I haven't been anywhere with a moritorium on sexual conversation subjects. However, every place I've been has people of different sensibilities. I know a retired policeman who is a nudist. I didn't ask him for a donut the first day I met him.
The piercing debate will rage on for a while. Only time will prevail.
The tattoo subject has some extreme possibilities to consider. The gentleman(?) with the FU tattoo in three inch high old english script running from shoulder to shoulder. Didn't bother him, he didn't have to read it. Then what about the young lady with the Harley Davidson emblem tattoed in the middle of the Yehaa Delta? I couldn't bring myself to ask if she had an endorsement deal. Now for balance, consider this. I saw a tattoo on a woman who had a breast removed. From a distance it gave the illusion of a breast. What a profoundly gifted person is able to do that kind of work.
I haven't found an objection to kissing in resort public. I have seen objection to making out in the resort public.
I like to have a drink, sometimes two and I'll get looped once in a while. I can't use all those brain cells anyway. But there are those who do not know when to say "when am I going to learn that I'm a drunk who hits on guys when I'm drunk". I look like a linebacker not a line dancer, but that didn't stop a guy from making a pass at me in front of his own wife. My bouncer days are over, so I expect the club to handle it. The club didn't want to lose the money. My wife freaked out that someone that drunk would not be ejected from the grounds immediately. That club lost my business over a drunk who had been to the club twice in two years.
My last comment I'll reserve for body painting. I've seen it twice. Once a guy showed up for a Halloween party completely black and in black face. I thought I had been kidnapped by aliens. The other time was for St. Paddy's day. That was ok, except for some small children in attendance. I think two guys painting someone below the waist while the kids were around was too much for me.
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calmnude
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Posted - 07/30/2004 : 11:59:19 PM
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Papa Shug,
choosing a resort is like shopping for anything else. you have to find one which fits for you and your family.
club members/visitors are representative of the world at large.
and tolerance levels vary with the person.
and some folks just cant handle their alcohol and make fools of themselves or worse. and turn off people.
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PapaShug
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Posted - 07/31/2004 : 3:04:34 PM
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Well put, calmnude.
I would never expect any two clubs to be exactly alike, even if the rules were the same word for word. The people make the difference.
I've advised people who have expressed an interest in nudism to do their homework and get as much info on a club before they go. Call ahead and ask questions. Take a tour if they can and I give them a short course on ettiquette.
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usvera
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 Posted - 08/17/2004 : 12:45:40 PM
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Originally posted by calmnude
vera.
you're generally in the vanguard about behavior and finding fun things to do for your guests.
it's up to the rest of the resorts to catch up to you.
continued success.
Thanks for the compliments Calmnude. A great deal of the credit goes to Sun Devil Mary who is our Director of Activities. Mary and several of our other members work very hard to be sure we have really sensational parties like the Hawaiian Luau Celebration we had a week ago.
We celebrated our club's 5th anniversary and it was really a great success. We had people join us from many far away places... like Sun Devil Laurie who came from Hawaii... and even several people from another local club that really had a great time..! 
Bare Hugz... Vera, the Sun Devil
The Diablo Sun Devils... a nudist club primarily for the benefit of women everywhere..!
http://www.DiabloSunDevils.com
Devils@DiabloSunDevils.com
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