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omarkoko
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 Posted - 10/24/2008 : 3:18:56 PM
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Hello, I'm Omar (18 years old) student, I live with my dad and mom and sister (13 years) and brother (9 years), my mom Mona is 38 years old, she is beautiful, shy, polite, kind, decent and respected woman, she never did anything bad, she wear modest clothes, all her behaves are so grave and wise, all people respect and ask her for any problem.
But I don't know what happened to her!!! Weeks ago she told us (my dad, me and my sister) that she went with her friends (females and males) to a nude beach and spend the whole day completely naked at the beach.
my dad became angry, but after time he said to mommy: please don't do that again.. My mom said: Ok, it will be the first and last and ONLY time in my life to do such low, shame and humiliating act.
From that black day till now the image can't be deleted from my mind (my mom completely naked and hundreds of strangers looking at her body holes).. Sometimes I fall in crying.. I can't be attention in my school.. I always think if my mom repeat that shame again.
1- Do you think my mom is bad woman? and why?
2- Do you think that my reaction is wrong? and why?
3- How can I recover my past Happily life again?
4- I asked that same question in some forums and all said: That is not bad, or: Good for your mom and for you, How it can be good for her or good for me?!!!
5- Some answers in some forums said: You must feel proud for your mom's act, or: You are lucky, or something like that... How it can I be proud with stranger guys from her friends or others looking at my mom's naked butt and privates?!!!!
Sorry for repiting the qestion but I'm in a very hard case... Help me please.. I want your help!
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ßeachcomber
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Posted - 10/24/2008 : 5:24:52 PM
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Oh, you definitely need help.
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ROB g
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Posted - 10/24/2008 : 6:40:38 PM
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I'm not sure what is considered a flag or spam on this site. Because I have answered some that were.
and ignored some that were. And the same or those that wern't.But this one sounds like it should be flagged.
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thornapplebison
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Posted - 10/25/2008 : 12:49:14 AM
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Omar, this is a private matter for your family. You would do better to ask guidance from your family's spiritual authority. No one on a message board can or should help you with a moral crisis in the family.
Speak with your father about this. Then, speak with your mother. Then, speak with your father again. If you are still confused, ask your spiritual authority for guidance. Be sure your mother and father know that you'll be talking with him about this before you go.
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blackrebel
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Posted - 10/25/2008 : 09:27:50 AM
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Don't feed the trolls!! 
No shame
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Posted - 10/25/2008 : 11:01:44 AM
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omarkoko from your questions i get the impression of your opinion, of the nudist lifestyle being something to be ashamed of or sinful. Many enjoy their freedom in the nude in appropreite, wholesome family freindly beaches clubs and resorts and they arenot breaking any laws or committing sins, just that they rather go nude. Families couples singles from all walks of life enjoy nude recreation.#1=no millions enjoy it.#2=Yes you think it is shamefull,#3=Take the family to the beach,#4=nudism isn't sexism its freedom,#5= most people don't go to look they go to enjoy life Naturally.
go n nude
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nudeisbetter
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Posted - 10/25/2008 : 8:07:27 PM
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Puh-lease...
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Jim in Boston
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Posted - 10/25/2008 : 9:44:42 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by thornapplebison
Omar, this is a private matter for your family. You would do better to ask guidance from your family's spiritual authority. No one on a message board can or should help you with a moral crisis in the family.
Speak with your father about this. Then, speak with your mother. Then, speak with your father again. If you are still confused, ask your spiritual authority for guidance. Be sure your mother and father know that you'll be talking with him about this before you go.
This kids 'spiritual authority' is the very last person who should be consulted. That person is probably an immoral, command and control type.
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thornapplebison
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Posted - 10/26/2008 : 02:16:38 AM
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Originally posted by Jim in Boston
This kids 'spiritual authority' is the very last person who should be consulted. That person is probably an immoral, command and control type.
This is a statement that you probably know nothing about. It's probably best that we don't judge people we haven't met.
This is a very dangerous world that we live in. Many people wish to portray nudists as immoral hedonists. Some might even use messages posted to an internet forum to stir up anger and moral outrage.
Whatever this case may be, it is surely a foolish thing for strangers to advise someone on matters of spirituality and morality. It is even more surely foolish to try to come between any spiritual authority and someone devoted to following it.
The best we can hope for is that we all learn to accept each other's differences respectfully. We all want to live good, moral lives. We have different teachers and different beliefs. None of us can say, now, who is right or who is wrong. But moral condemnation between people who mean no harm to each other is inappropriate and wrong-headed.
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Jim in Boston
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Posted - 11/01/2008 : 5:16:39 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by thornapplebison
quote:
Originally posted by Jim in Boston
This kids 'spiritual authority' is the very last person who should be consulted. That person is probably an immoral, command and control type.
This is a statement that you probably know nothing about. It's probably best that we don't judge people we haven't met.
This is a very dangerous world that we live in. Many people wish to portray nudists as immoral hedonists. Some might even use messages posted to an internet forum to stir up anger and moral outrage.
Whatever this case may be, it is surely a foolish thing for strangers to advise someone on matters of spirituality and morality. It is even more surely foolish to try to come between any spiritual authority and someone devoted to following it.
The best we can hope for is that we all learn to accept each other's differences respectfully. We all want to live good, moral lives. We have different teachers and different beliefs. None of us can say, now, who is right or who is wrong. But moral condemnation between people who mean no harm to each other is inappropriate and wrong-headed.
I agree with you that moral condemnation between people who mean no harm to each other is inappropriate. But Omar is repeating moral condemnation (of his mother) that was planted in him by someone.
The likes of people who have advised Omar are the kind of people who use the web (and other mechanisms) to stir up trouble. What I had to say is about the mildest thing I have to say about them. And I DO know something about them. So do you, unless you have been asleep for the whole of the current millenium.
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Admin
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Posted - 11/06/2008 : 11:38:48 AM
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Consider this thread a good challenge to deal with a strange question. I just wouldn't take it too seriously.
Perhaps your answers could be helpful to anyone in an even remotely similar situation. (If that's even possible!)
Let's ignore that persistent beeping for a little while longer, just to see where it goes.
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ETrainer
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Posted - 11/06/2008 : 11:59:43 AM
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Omar, I am very concerned with your judgment of your mother. I am sure you deeply respected your mother before the incident of the nudist beach. You are a young man and are completely able to form your own ideas of what is right and wrong. We are all raised with some similarity of ideals and beliefs of our parents and communities. You are at an age where you have the right to reflect on your life and beliefs and other beliefs of the world. You can decide with is best for you.
To better understand your mother's experience I would encourage you to talk to her about it, just the two of you. Get her side of the experience. Did she feel free? Did she enjoy the sun on her skin? Did she feel like everyone was looking at her? What did it mean to her to be amongst other nude people.
Nudism is not the same as sex or other bad things related to sexuality. The body is just a shell, it's what in our hearts and minds that really matters.
Omar, please keep us posted on how things are going.
Be safe! Be bare!
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Warmskin
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Posted - 11/06/2008 : 4:08:48 PM
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Interestingly enough, Omar has not been back to this thread. If I were ernest about this matter, I would keep asking pertinent questions, or be thanking the people here who helped me understand things about nudism. I think it's mighty easy to lob a post and then walk away, if it's a bit of a prank. The Admin is right; treat is if it were a general topic for us all.
That government governs best, which governs least - Thomas Jefferson
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AJ0127
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Posted - 11/16/2008 : 10:35:06 AM
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This had to be a gag. And you all fell for it! Think about it for a moment. This guy who knows nothing of nudism finds out that is mother went to a nude beach and then he finds this site to ask nudists what they think of it. Doesn't that strike you as being a little odd?
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go n nude
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Posted - 11/16/2008 : 11:09:11 AM
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Odd indeed, Help Please?? and this forum of 19,143 members being helpful and knowing on the 23,752 posts here, sure some small minds will be amused at small things. They don't have the last laugh or really fool anybody as we,ve seen here. Just themselfs. Clowns are everywhere.
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