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FireProf
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 Posted - 01/07/2007 : 7:16:20 PM
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I don't think you're alone in those hopes and dreams - - Tom. It would be great to have all these new members, which just happen to be young women, be genuine, red blooded real people wanting to be nudists.
The fact is , sadly, that we get dooped, tricked, mislead and made to look foolish by some guy that took a picture off the internet and posts it here and pretends to be this person to have fun at our expense. That's the only problem I have with these trolls.
I'd probably believe them more if they posted a picture of Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston!
and....I hate to break it to you but Tom...there really is a Santa Claus!
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allnaturalwife
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Posted - 01/08/2007 : 4:35:30 PM
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Unfortunately for us all..there is really NO WAY to tell who is and who isnt for real on a forum such as this. Most of the time by someones posts, you can eventually decipher a fake or a "troll"..but not always. Recently our 16 year old daughter was removed form a message board, because they just couldnt believe there was a teenager as open about nudity as her. A lot of times our family gets scrutanized because we are "too open" and live too much of a "nude life" Which is of course the stupidest thing I have EVER heard! So many nudists still view nudism as something they have to at least hide from someone. So when they meet and/or are introduced to other, more open, nudists or families that live a COMPLETELY OPEN nude life they just cannot believe it. When a new person joins a forum such as this one, of course there are certain "red flags" that go up. But there ARE nudists, who ARE female, AND young.. that are up front and really ARE true nudists. Hell, we have three daughters that fit that description. So although we should be somewhat skeptical, remeber these women/girls DO exist, so it IS possible that they might want to come on a forum such as this and chat with us all. Not taking a position on ANYONE here..just food for thought from either side of the debate.
Jennifer
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FireProf
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 Posted - 01/08/2007 : 11:36:11 PM
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Jenn,
I understand what you are saying and agree but a young nudist woman would post differently and their posts would be much more believable.
Those previous members that we speak of posted some really off the wall, hardly believable things they did as nudists.
Even as open as you and your family are, I can't see you not caring one bit about anyone else in the neighborhood and go jogging naked everyday, waving to everyone as though you were dressed in exercise attire.
Many of these new, young female members also begin posting sexual type responses that are not characteristic of someone either brought up naturist or has adopted the naturist philosophy.
I'm fairly certain if any of your daughter's began posting here, we could tell quite easily that they were nudists and not someone posing as one and trying to pull the wool over everyone else's eyes.
I try and keep an open mind with all new members, men, women or young men and women. It becomes very obvious when someone new asks a question (usually boardering on sexual/sensual) and they are answered by several regulars and they continue to ask simular questions along those lines without any real dialog with those that have answered their questions.
It is absolutely true that we all can be anyone we want on the internet, one of those things that keeps my wife from participating. These forums and simular others have been a great asset to me in gaining information and meeting other like minded individuals. They've also helped with assisting me in getting my wife to embrace social nudism.
I think for the most part, most people here are genuine, honest and even though we don't always agree on philosophy of nudism or other world affairs, we are fairly certain that the vast majority of those posting are nudists here for the same reasons. It's not hard to decipher the believable from the unbelievable.
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Tuffers
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Posted - 01/09/2007 : 04:46:43 AM
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Well said FireProf and you Jenn. I was sceptical about the two sisters but you must give them the benefit of the doubt for a while. Perhaps if the lovely sisters who live in a "Flat" in California would like to resurface, then we may find out how genuine they are.
Compared with some on this forum I am still a relative newcomer but anybody who is really interested in the nudist way of life and enjoys this excellent forum will hang around when the time tasters have long gone. Let's enjoy what we have got here.
Mike
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Pete Knight
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Posted - 01/09/2007 : 06:55:55 AM
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I uncovered one such imposter once, they went by the name 'Tina Rosebridge' and used an avatar that was used elsewhere under a different name, but they are always of pretty young ladies, I wonder why.
When I was a moderator on the naked walk forum we had a guy posting as BobS who attacked naturism and naturists telling us he knew we were perverts because he had the evidence, he told me that he had a web site where he posed as a young lady naturist, and the e-mails he got from men proved beyond doubt that naturists were sex crazed perverts. I asked him if he'd considered that those men were posing as naturists, or using naturism as a front for sexual predation, bearing in mind that he too was using naturism and posing as a young lady to draw in these people, but he was blind to that reasoning.
Perhaps you'll understand why I get so defensive about people trying to introduce sexual elements into naturism, its not because I have no sexuality, but a line has to be drawn to stop naturism from being hijacked by swingers, voyeurs, exhibitionists, doggers etc., much the way beaches have been, like the swingers clubs that call themselves nudist resorts, as has been debated about on this very forum.
Pete Knight
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pc1961
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Posted - 01/09/2007 : 10:41:10 AM
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Jenn,
Would you consider helping "police" the board. Periodically, you or one of your daughters could create an extra identity. In that way, you could help clean up posters that are sending improper messages etc.
What members are really a wolf in sheep's clothing?
Just a thought from a regular lurker.
Paul
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Tuffers
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Posted - 01/09/2007 : 12:19:22 PM
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You would have my vote Jenn. Perhaps Cheri & you could get your heads together as both of you are a real asset to the forum.
Mike
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allnaturalwife
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Posted - 01/09/2007 : 1:37:54 PM
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Sure I will do what I can to help out. What we can ALL do, as I have written in other posts, is NOT to keep fueling discussions that are obviously not REAL nudist issues. The posts stand out in their wording and content. Especially, as it was metioned, posts that keep beating the SAME ISSUE to death over and over. For example, if a question is posed that may be of a more risque or sexual nature it may in fact be a legitimate question. BUT if the question is answered many times, by many different intelligent posters, and certain individuals KEEP going with the same tiresome discussion all we all have to do is STOP ENGAGING them. We all know what topics are the "hot ones" for this incessant rambling so lets just stop posting in them.
Jennifer
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Pete Knight
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Posted - 01/09/2007 : 2:32:14 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by allnaturalwife
Sure I will do what I can to help out. What we can ALL do, as I have written in other posts, is NOT to keep fueling discussions that are obviously not REAL nudist issues. The posts stand out in their wording and content. Especially, as it was metioned, posts that keep beating the SAME ISSUE to death over and over. For example, if a question is posed that may be of a more risque or sexual nature it may in fact be a legitimate question. BUT if the question is answered many times, by many different intelligent posters, and certain individuals KEEP going with the same tiresome discussion all we all have to do is STOP ENGAGING them. We all know what topics are the "hot ones" for this incessant rambling so lets just stop posting in them.
Jennifer
Jennifer is quite right, so a sign is going up on the Nudist-Resorts cage.
DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS
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BareBackOnMyHorse
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 Posted - 01/09/2007 : 11:27:26 PM
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Wait... Who is BareDevil??? Not me I hope!
BareBack
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FireProf
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Posted - 01/10/2007 : 02:28:16 AM
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Okay........there is some "very" slight simularities in your names like "bare" but that's it.
There was a "BareDevil" and you are "BareBackOnMyHorse". Hardly the same person we are talking about. No one is judging you, your posts or your existence.
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BareBackOnMyHorse
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Posted - 01/10/2007 : 10:28:31 AM
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Originally posted by FireProf
Okay........there is some "very" slight simularities in your names like "bare" but that's it.
There was a "BareDevil" and you are "BareBackOnMyHorse". Hardly the same person we are talking about. No one is judging you, your posts or your existance.
Thanks for telling me! I was getting worried.
BareBack
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traisjames
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Posted - 02/21/2008 : 9:31:58 PM
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I reasontly told my mom about how I am conferrable being nude. my family tends to lounge around the house wearing just underwear and shorts (or shirts in my sister and moms case), but I have gone skinny dipping with my brother and my mom seemed to be fine with it. that was over the summer and a few weeks ago, I asked her her thoughts on nudity. it did not result in a good conversation. I am at college and its winter so I can only be nude in my room as I don't have any friends who seem conferrable with nudity and so I spend all of my "free" time by myself, and I find it so much more enjoyable then being clothd, but I know when I go home, I won't be able to be so free. Even if my mom was ok with it, my dad and sister would not be.
From the guy with his eye on the sky
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Tedius
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Posted - 03/06/2008 : 01:46:54 AM
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My parents and brothers are totally against nudism, because they are Jehovah's Witnesses. However, I go to great lengths to keep my status as a nudist a secret from them. I am afraid to discuss nudism to them. If I reveal to them that I am a nudist, they will get very angry.
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traisjames
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Posted - 04/26/2008 : 6:30:21 PM
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As i have mentioned in previous posts, I am kind of a closet nudist as other than my mother knows...knew...that I was a nudist. when I told her about, I got a fairly negative response. Well last week was spring break (I have a loopy college) and I was at home for my break. On sunday my mom gave me a much needed hair cut. After my hair cut I wanted to wash off the hair so I wouldn't be itchy, and being that I was home, I decided to go to "my" pond to dip in and wash off the hair. Sure, the water was about 34°, but I will be lifeguarding at lake superior this summer and the water won't how I like it at about 90° and if someone needs to be rescued, I won't be able to ease my way into the lake, so I was using my pond to start getting adjusted to the cold. My 12 year-old brother came down, saw that I was nude, asked about it, then got naked and joined. we spent about 10 minutes seeing exactly how insane we by seeing how deep we would go (I made it to my armpit. he made it to his belly, and his legs turned red because of the cold...my shoulder also turned red, but from a sunburn instead). While still in the water we talked a little bit about it, and while he was fine with being nude himself, he did not feel conferrable being nude with people not in his family. Still, that now makes 1 is fine with nudity, 1 indifferent, 2 have no idea about me being a nudist, and ME!
I should quickly mention that my sister does not know and I am debating on weither she would be ok with it or not. On one hand, she is like rebellious teen, dressing in some kind of provocative manor (actually she isn't that bad) and whatever is cool or hip. her rebelliousness also includes being self-centered and aggressive. On the other hand, she is very open minded when it comes to gay rights, being extremely active in her high school's Gay-straight alliance, which when I found out actually surprised me based on her personality, but being as open minded as she is, I have been thinking she might be ok with the fact that I am a nudist.
Tuesday afternoon, took my dogs out to let them go to the bathroom and I went down with them to the pond and saw that some ducks had landed, but my dogs scared them off, so I took them back inside, grabbed a camera, and went back out. When I got down to the pond, the ducks were still gone, so after hiding in some bushes, I decided to go on a walk to our family's land (I was nude from the time I got down to the pond the second time on). After seeing a flock of turkeys, a deer, 8 ticks, and making it to our land a mile away, I headed back to the pond to hopefully see that the ducks had come back. As I came over the hill, I saw one of two things. First, there were no ducks; second, my parents were looking for me. My cloths were on the other side of the pond from me so there was no way I could get changed, so my mom and dad both saw me nude. at that time neither one mentioned anything to me about it but when I was helping my dad put the sheep and pony away, he mentioned that I should avoid doing that since it is turkey hunting season and soon to be mushroom hunting seasoning and that was it. At some point while watching TV he refereed to me as nature boy. This is an almost 100% opposite of how I was expecting him to respond. My dad is a bit more conservative then my mom so I was expecting him to frown apon it more then mom. This has been turned on its head and I am glad about that.
One more thing, when I got back to the pond and put my pants on, I had to keep adjusting them as I could not get them back on and have them feel conferrable.
From the guy with his eye on the sky
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