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| Spontanudity |
Posted - 11/08/2003 : 8:57:57 PM
Being a young single male and frequently meeting potential partners while out and about, I have often wondered when is the best time to tell the person you're a naturist.
I've tried different approaches to the subject, some I have told on the first night others I have waited a considerable amount of time.
My feeling is that you need to establish the relationship before bringing up the subject. I think is primarily due to the societies association nudity with sex.
So when is the best time:
a) First meeting?
b) Within a week?
c) Months?
d) Years?
Cheers,
Spontanudity
"Forever Naked"
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| TheOmne |
Posted - 08/06/2004 : 01:01:17 AM
Hey Spontinudity, I don't know if you are still seeing the strict Catholic girl who you spoke of in an earlier post, but I just thought I'd throw a quote out there that I found and plan on showing my mother when I finally get up the courage to tell her that I'm a nudist.
quote:
"Sexual modesty cannot then in any simple way be identified with the use of clothing, nor shamelessness with the absence of clothing and total or partial nakedness. There are circumstances in which nakedness is not immodest... Nakedness as such is not to be equated with physical shamelessness. Immodesty is present only when nakedness plays a negative role with regard to the value of the person... The human body is not in itself shameful, nor for the same reasons are sensual reactions, and human sensuality in general. Shamelessness (just like shame and modesty) is a function of the interior of a person." Pope John Paul II (nee Karol Cardinal Wojtyla) [in "Love & Responsibility", 1981]
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| bornnude |
Posted - 08/05/2004 : 08:01:24 AM
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Originally posted by SunTanMan
Tommyjoe,
What is your wife's body shape. Is she skinny,slender, medium, plump, overweight? She could very well have issues about the way she looks and that could be the problem.
You should discuss, and resove, body image issues with her before you discuss nudism.
SunTanMan
I have seen women with slender or skinny figures looking at every "imperfection" and complaining about it, afraid to remove clothes. On the other hand, there are many women around with abundant figures who are very comfortable in their skin.
Here is a link from Rocky Mountain Naturists on Real Nudists - http://www.rockymountainnaturists.com/realnudists.htm |
| calmnude |
Posted - 08/04/2004 : 9:03:30 PM
What is most interesting is that i think most nudists are more accepting of various body shapes.
don't know the reasons behind this, but, imho, it is a major rason why many folks stay nudists for a long time, because we know each other as people, have fun together and change throughout the years, in many ways including appearance.
and it is a nice feeling.
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| Cheri |
Posted - 08/02/2004 : 10:08:42 PM
SunTanMan, If she were to embrace nudism, the body image issue wouldn't be an issue.
Regards, Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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| SunTanMan |
Posted - 08/02/2004 : 9:32:12 PM
Tommyjoe,
What is your wife's body shape. Is she skinny,slender, medium, plump, overweight? She could very well have issues about the way she looks and that could be the problem.
You should discuss, and resove, body image issues with her before you discuss nudism.
SunTanMan
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| Cheri |
Posted - 08/01/2004 : 7:59:42 PM
Tom, Print out my brochure that is online at - /cheri.html - don't hand it to her.Leave it where she's bound to look at it though. When you're sure she's read it offer her a compromise. In exchange for one hr. of her time with you at a nudist venue, offer her something she really would like, ie., you cooking for her, you taking her out to dinner, her choice of tv show or movie,something in your budget. Remind her how beautiful she is and also tell her that if at any time she's uncomfortable, you will gladly leave with her.
I wish you well,
Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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| tommyjoe |
Posted - 08/01/2004 : 6:17:08 PM
I am a home naturist and I like it very much. Would like to get my wife interested in it. I am nude any chance I get. My wife doesn't care if I walk around nude but won't try it herself. Love to be nude.
Tom |
| Spontanudity |
Posted - 11/23/2003 : 5:36:55 PM
Its not so much forcing people into it, its managing peoples opinions once you have told them your a naturist. Most people, particularly those that aren't familar with you automatically become very suspicious. Its explaining to them nudity doesn't necessarily equate to sex is the difficulty.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
"Forever Naked"
http://groups.msn.com/YoungSydneyNaturists |
| irishred |
Posted - 11/23/2003 : 07:58:54 AM
Kim, you have a point. I think there are many more people out there that do certain things or try things and won't admit to it.
calmnude you are obviously correct, you can't force anyone to try it or anything for that matter.
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| Kimberly |
Posted - 11/23/2003 : 07:53:38 AM
I think most people now days its doesn't bother them to talk about nudity, or skinny dipping, or sleeping nude. I think a lot of people are afraid to admit that they do it or would like to do it.
Kim =^.^= |
| Spontanudity |
Posted - 11/22/2003 : 11:35:42 AM
Calmnude,
I always sleep nude so I kind of have to explain the situation quite early. It does get a little difficult explaining to partner that you are simply taking off your clothes because you prefer to sleep that way can sometimes be difficult.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
"Forever Naked"
http://groups.msn.com/YoungSydneyNaturists |
| calmnude |
Posted - 11/22/2003 : 09:36:44 AM
at my age, bring it up at 1st or second meeting. no need to prolong agony.
of course, i bring it up in discussion, like" did you ever go skinnydipping as kid". and you can usually tell by body language or the response what the reaction will be. or you ask if you made vacation reservations and found out it was clothing optional, what would you do?
enjoy it, kim, you love it!
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| Kimberly |
Posted - 11/22/2003 : 07:25:53 AM
Spontanudity;
My husband dragged me into nudism kicking and screaming. After 17 years I still enjoy it.
KIm =^.^= |
| Spontanudity |
Posted - 11/12/2003 : 06:02:53 AM
Kim,
I take your point. Its a very difficult subject and really needs to be discussed a little a time. Saying that, most of the girl friends I've introduced to naturism are still into it long after our relationship has ended.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
"Forever Naked"
http://groups.msn.com/YoungSydneyNaturists |
| Kimberly |
Posted - 11/12/2003 : 02:20:33 AM
Thats great Bare in the Desert, you both had an interest in nudism, I think you are lucky. From what I read on the board, most men are into nudism, and are trying to convince their wives or girl friends to try it.
Kim =^.^= |
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