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freecospirit
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 Posted - 07/27/2009 : 2:23:39 PM
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Be patient and do not try to force your wife into anything that she is not happy with. You say that you sleep nude and spend time nude at home, you haven't said how your wife feels about sleeping nude and being nude in the home. It may be that she will never be happy nude in company, if she is a similar age to you and has been all her life that is highly likely. I do not belong to any club but I do go to clothing optional beaches with my wife who sometimes bares all and sometimes not. I notice other couples on the beach some both bare, some only one partner and some both clothed. As long as she doesn't mind going to CO beaches with you and doesn't mind you being nude accept that, if she feels ready she will but as long as you can go nude with her "blessing" be happy. I would not go to nude places without her if you value your marriage.
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Diger
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Posted - 07/29/2009 : 7:42:02 PM
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I agree frecospirit, It's not a good Idea to go to nude places without your spouse. I just wouldn't want to go without her anyway, I don't see the fun in that.
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Randall50
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Posted - 07/29/2009 : 9:43:52 PM
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I am planning my first visit to a nudist site without my wife and without her knowledge. I've read the advice above against doing that. Why? I attend baseball events without her. What is the reasoning behind not attending without my spouse?
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ah2benude
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Posted - 07/30/2009 : 08:12:28 AM
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There is nothing wrong with going to a nudist beach or resort as a single as long as your spouse knows. I have been doing it for years. You stated that you go to baseball games without her, and that's fine, because most people do not equate baseball with sex, but they do with nudism.
I don't know if you wife knows about your liking of our lifestyle and just doesn't care to participate, or she is totaly against it. If she is not against it, perhaps you could look up all the information you can on the subject, and then sit down with her and tell her that you would like to try it. See how she feels about it.
My wife and I, like many other couples, enjoy doing many things together. But we don't do everything together. There are activities that we enjoy seperately. And we've learned that it is o.k. We aren't all joined at the hip.
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nakedmodel
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Posted - 04/02/2010 : 1:37:35 PM
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Hey, I'm glad I found this topic. Now I can talk to you who understand me. M wife has no interest nudity either. But I go around nude anyway. She doesn't like when I do it & we have had some heated discussions over it. But during the first 15 years of our marriage it never bothered her. She said it was"cute" that I went around naked. One day she taped me doing a strip tease to music while her sister & a friend watched. They really enjoyed it & I always went nude with them there. When I would get home from work the first thing I would do is take my clothes off & stay naked until we went out. One morning when we got out of bed my wife shouted at me to get dressed & stop the nudity. She said she doesn't like it & I should keep my clothes on. She said when she's not home I can go nude then & join a nudist club. One morning she left to run some errands & I was lounging around nude. When she came home she shouted,"NAKED AGAIN! NAKED! NAKED! NAKED! YOU'RE ALWAYS NAKED!" So I got dressed to shut her up. I reminded her about the many times I was naked with her sister & friends there & she didn't mind. She denied the whole thing. One night she was going out with her friend & told me to please be dressed. They might come inside. So I put on a robe. When they got inside my wife told me to take the robe off. Her friend said it was ok if I kept it on. But my wife kept insisting that I take it off "right now." So I took the robe off & I was naked. She said that's not what she meant. Her friend told her to calm down & askes her what the problem was. I still sleep nude & go nude with her at home. She just looks the other way.
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OLD BUZZARD
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Posted - 04/09/2010 : 6:54:04 PM
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My wife isnt a nudist eather. but i have her blessing and i go out to the magic circle weekly.sure wish she would change her mind,wlii keep working on her and hope for the best
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