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misterick
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 Posted - 07/21/2010 : 4:04:15 PM
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Two years ago we went to Negril and she would only take off her top at nite between me and her in the outdoor jacuzzi on the cloth optional part of the resort that we stayed, we justed came back and this time she walked around the cloths option and sunbath topless, she was a little shy to walk around all the time as she cover herself on and off. she would not take her bottom off, I am looking for suggestions or points on how to make her more comfortable and go fully nude, seens she is comfortable topless now but don't want to scare her by forcing her to take her bottom off, she did wore a G-string to the jacazzi at nite as we join other people in the jacuzzi.
rick martin
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Diger
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Posted - 07/22/2010 : 7:31:55 PM
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This is very common Rick, Don't rush her she will come around when the time is right. If you can find a nude beach that you guys can get some space to yourselves she may feel more at ease. Either way sounds like she is progressing just fine anyway.
Good Luck
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Nudony
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Posted - 07/22/2010 : 8:29:08 PM
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I'm of the philosophy that getting accustomed to being comfortable nude begins at home. I've talked to many nudists over the years; from people who started at home and then tried social nudity, to people who jumped right "into it." The people who started at the resort reported greater difficulty, and several trials, before being able to disrobe completely. The people who had started out by being home-nudists reported a shorter adjustment period before making the leap.
At home, you can address nudity and body-image issues, patiently and over time. It's more difficult when you address the issue "on the spot", as in: "Ok, we're here at the nude beach now. Ready to get naked?!"
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FireProf
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Posted - 07/22/2010 : 9:58:24 PM
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Nudony...has it right!
Many, many of the guys that have issues with reluctant wifes want to go to a resort or club as the first experience and their spouses aren't even comfy with being nude at HOME.....WRONG!
Gotta get them comfy at home first, then...if able...take it outside in the yard at night, then graduate to the daytime...then...take it to a beach, lake, river where you can be by yourselves and she can see what goes on.
After that...then a club or resort but when she's ready!
Good luck and here's sending you lots of patience!
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