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nudist-teen
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 Posted - 03/01/2008 : 07:05:31 AM
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Hi i found out my neibour and his wife are nudists. They don't knw i am as yet. what shall i do?
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Edited by - Moderator on 03/02/2008 2:14:00 PM
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Tuffers
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Posted - 03/01/2008 : 07:31:19 AM
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How did you find out that your neighbours are nudists? As long as you are sure they are, why don't you chat with them and raise the subject as long as you are comfortable with letting them know that you are as well and you feel that they are happy that their choice of lifestyle is open.
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nudist-teen
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Posted - 03/01/2008 : 08:29:53 AM
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im not 100 percent sure but people in the street say they have been spotted nude in the house and in the back yard
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go n nude
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Posted - 03/01/2008 : 3:27:54 PM
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nudist-teen, your neighbours have been spotted nude in their own home and hearsay tells you they may be nudists,You must be cautious as they might not entertain the fact they are,what they do the privacy of their home is their business and i know lots of people who run naked all over their house but won't go to a resort or c/o beach. Like Tuffers, i'd say be very careful and tactful in your approach to that topic.Rumors are just that,they get better everytime their repeated.
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prism2525
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Posted - 03/01/2008 : 5:25:08 PM
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Man I hate people who stare at people's houses. Why the he** don't they mind their own business for a change???
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nudist-teen
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Posted - 03/02/2008 : 05:40:24 AM
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i know thats what i thought. don't know who spotted them.
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go n nude
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Posted - 03/02/2008 : 07:09:52 AM
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nudist-teen you'll always find good advice and knoweledgeable opinions in this forum,what you do is really all up to you.Its not important who saw and who said?? If your neighbours are friendly towards you and you know them well, you might want to raise the topic like Tuffers said, telling them about how you enjoy Nudism or saying i went to the c/o beach at----yesterday.You might get a response or maybe not, but you do what and when you think is best.Over time who's knows they might join you or invite you. Good Luck.
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CopperQuail
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Posted - 03/02/2008 : 8:17:24 PM
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Don't let it be someone setting you up. Just imagine if you were not a nudist: "Hi, someone told me you hang around naked, I'm one of you" Could get you some wierd looks. Just a thought.
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fullmonte
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Posted - 03/03/2008 : 12:29:54 AM
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nudist-teen, all have valuable advise to ponder. I'm sure the thought of nudists being so close to you is exciting, and the urge to get it all out in the open is strong; I know it would be if it were me. I love the oneness between myself and others of like mind, and if I heard a rumor that my next door neighbors were nudists, I'd definitely set up a situation such as (go n nude) suggested. Such as just at the end of the conversation as you are walking away (if the vibes feel good) saying something jovial and friendly like; "boy it's so warm today, I think a person would about have to be naked to be comfortable". Take careful notes of their response.
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Balto Bob
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Posted - 03/03/2008 : 10:19:59 AM
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You could send them a note. You know their address. Include your phone, email etc. If they are interested they will contact you.
Bob
Have a nice NUDE day !!
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FlCpl4NewdFun
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Posted - 03/05/2008 : 12:26:43 AM
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Balto Bob: I must say that is the quintessential "creepy-guy" approach. What's the kid going to say "Hey I'm your 18 year old neighbor, word on the street it you and the wife are nudists because some of the folks on the street have seen you naked in your home through the windows. I like being naked too. Here's my email and phone number." I can't image what they would think when they received such a note.
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Balto Bob
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Posted - 03/05/2008 : 10:13:52 AM
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I didn't say what to put in the note. My thinking was a note (Hi I live in the area. We may share a common interest in nudism) would be less direct. If they call/email great, if not you tryed. You may have a much better idea.
Bob
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agde
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Posted - 03/05/2008 : 10:29:37 AM
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I've always found the best way to open a dialog with likely fellow naturists is not to talk about them, but to talk about us.
If you were an enthusiast about cultivating roses and you heard your neighbor might have a special rose variety hidden in their backyard, you wouldn't go running over to demand to see it. Instead, you'd probably watch for a friendly conversational opportunity to say something like, "Spring is coming and I am so hopeful for my yellow Agnes rugosa roses!"
Similarly, the next time you are chatting with the neighbors, why not just remark that you are looking forward to summer and ask if they mind if you occasionally sunbathe au natural in your backyard to avoid tan lines? Another approach could be just to thank them, in case they've noticed, for being understanding about your occasional clothes-free air-bathing time around your house and garden.
Having done this with suspected naturists might even be good practice for raising the subject in the same way with non-naturist neighbors! 
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DaffyTaffy2
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Posted - 03/05/2008 : 11:39:03 AM
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Agde had a ggod point.
The best way 2 get 2 know your neighbors is to find an opp to chat on a nice day and hopefully you have something in common and let them get 2 know u first.
I don't know how old the couple is but they may also feel uncomfortable discussing there lifestyle indoors with a younger person. With so much crap about preditors etc. worries now a days.
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nudist-teen
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Posted - 03/06/2008 : 04:41:26 AM
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hi thanks for replies.
i have been more friendly and sociable to my neibours lately and happend to ask me in for a cup of tea.
They were asking about my life and what i enjoy. So i mentioned my hobbies and then mentioned i am a nudist. Bit embarassing but then they both said to me, they are nudists too.
Sounds unreal but as people had suspected they were.
I said thats great and they visit the same beach as me, although i have never seen them there.
They also mentioned that they would be happy for me to visit in the nude some other time. This is great so thanks for peoples help.
Whats the next step. I might feel a bit strange being naked in someone elses house.
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DaffyTaffy2
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Posted - 03/06/2008 : 09:07:44 AM
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nudist-teen,
You got what u wanted and now u don't know if u will be comfy in their home? U should have considered that way before this point! Buck up and be a man! U go 2 the beach and don't feel un comfortable there so meet them there instead then get 2 know them better. U will get more comfy once u know the couple better and the beach is more nutural then thier home.
P.S. Think things thru before u act on things u will get furthur in life.
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