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calmnude
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Posted - 11/27/2003 : 6:44:31 PM
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but we all know you are nice woman. maybe they'll come around, maybe they wont. but it's your life and you like the nude way of life.
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Cheri
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Posted - 11/27/2003 : 7:14:27 PM
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Melissa, The family you have here knows who you truly are, a wonderful young woman who has the highest moral standards.
Mega hugs, Cheri (aka mom)
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism - -
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cheef
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Posted - 11/28/2003 : 12:34:47 AM
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quote: Originally posted by melissastarr
I'm kind of the black sheep of the family. Knowing that I'm a nudist would only add ammunition to their assaults.
Remember, Melissa... We all have at least 3 families: #1 is the one we're born into. #2 is the one that chooses us. #3 is the one we choose.
As part of your family #2 & family #3, I'd like to make it officially known that we think you're pretty wonderful and we're happy to have you around!
http://cheef.com http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nudist-news-group/
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/28/2003 : 07:32:12 AM
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Thanks Calmnude, Cheri, and Cheef (the 'C people,' or so it seems.) My nudist family is soooo loving and accepting! You have quite a few things to teach the rest of the world about how to treat others. Maybe you all could have a little seminar for my biological family? LOL Thanks for adopting me in!!!
Melissa
____________________________________________________________________ My clothes have low self-esteem... they know they're not wanted.
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cheef
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Posted - 11/28/2003 : 11:34:20 AM
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Oh, and speaking of the original topic, my immediate family knows I'm a nudist, but my extended family doesn't. Interestingly, my immediate family would not be comfortable using the term "nudist" to describe themselves, but they spend almost a month's worth of vacation time at a nude beach in the Caribbean every winter.
p.s. How did this topic about families end up under the section titled "Do Nudists Have Sex?" Seems like it should probably be relocated!
http://cheef.com http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nudist-news-group/
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Admin
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Posted - 11/28/2003 : 1:37:11 PM
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Cheef, thanks for spotting that! It didn't really belong where it was originally posted, better is Not Lewd, Not Crude, ...Just Nude.
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trucker
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Posted - 11/28/2003 : 10:49:58 PM
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hey melissa keep your chin up,,your family might come around some day,,time heals all,,they might not understand now,but some day they might come to your idea's of life and how YOU chose to live it,,remember blood is thick,,your might not approve at the moment but they'll always be family,,smiles..
smile it makes people wonder about ya
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cheef
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 02:13:30 AM
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quote: Originally posted by Admin
Cheef, thanks for spotting that! It didn't really belong where it was originally posted, better is Not Lewd, Not Crude, ...Just Nude.
Then again, there wouldn't be families without sex... but I'm still sure you didn't mean to have it there!
http://cheef.com http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nudist-news-group/
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Rahul7009
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 02:41:50 AM
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no, no one knows and i m frightened to tell this to them. They might think that i m out of my mind..
~~[({<RAHUL>})]~~
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 06:29:33 AM
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Melissa,
"Family Slut"... Thats a very strange opinion to have of somebody. Even if they knew about your enjoyment of naturism, what does it have to do with the term "slut"?
Cheers, Spontanudity
"Forever Naked" http://groups.msn.com/YoungSydneyNaturists
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 07:10:47 AM
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Spontanudity,
The family has NO idea that I'm a nudist now. It's been less than 2 months since I've been one. I've been called the family slut since I was in pre-school or so because of what my dad used to do to me. He died 5 years ago and the abuse ended about 10 years ago but the name remains.
Melissa
____________________________________________________________________ My clothes have low self-esteem... they know they're not wanted.
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 07:56:10 AM
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Melissa,
I too was abused by my father but i certainly don't carry the responsibility of his actions in my name.
Do you think your family's opinion would change if they knew you were a nudist?
Cheers, Spontanudity
"Forever Naked" http://groups.msn.com/YoungSydneyNaturists
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 08:55:41 AM
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Sponta,
I think they would see their perceptions of me confirmed if they knew I was a nudist. I try to live a very clean and proper life now to prove to myself (and to them, I guess) that I'm not a slut. I've NEVER chosen to have sex- that has only happened in the context of abuse related to my dad- and I probably never will. I don't even date at this time. Probably abnormal, but that's who I am and that's who I need to be right now.
Melissa
____________________________________________________________________ My clothes have low self-esteem... they know they're not wanted.
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/29/2003 : 09:25:12 AM
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Melissa,
I really object to the term "slut"... It really does bother me and I would never use it to describe anybody. I'm not sure what type of person would use it particularly in the family context.
Cheers, Spontanudity
"Forever Naked" http://groups.msn.com/YoungSydneyNaturists
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Kimberly
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Posted - 11/30/2003 : 3:31:23 PM
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Melissa;
I agree with Spontanudity, and I also object to the term "slut". Seems like if a woman does something sexual she is deemed a slut, but if a guy does it he is "stud". Doen't make sence.
Kim =^.^=
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